Closure or acceptance

Closure or acceptance

So often we hear the words- you need closure. Close one door so another can be open. So many doors!

Is there not an alternative? What if we just accept change.
Accept that life is fluid. It does not have to be closed.

Do we fight closure or acceptance because our plan for our life got dealt an unexpected hand?

I am not sure where the words- Fail to plan and plan to fail fits in.
Plan and fail because not everything can be planned.

What if, one afternoon, you opened the door when it rang and was pleasantly surprised by what life sent you and it was not in your plan?

Serendipity?

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