Open heart surgery

Open heart surgery

Open Heart Surgery3 years ago I had open heart surgery. I did not know there was anything wrong with my heart. I did not have high cholesterol or stress. As a matter of fact, I was rather happy, content and generally enjoying life. One afternoon a heart surgeon walked into my office and told me to look after my heart. I asked: Why is there a problem? The surgeon very quietly and calming replied: I am just saying look after your heart. My usual self would have gone into a panic, rushing to find a second opinion change my lifestyle, but somehow, I trusted this surgeon. He has visited my office a few times and was always quiet and collected. Impressive demeanour. The following year I looked after my heart and kept track of my activities and lifestyle and diet. In April 2009, I had a full blown heart attack. I spent the whole summer being tired, out of breathe, down and weak. I went on holidays, relaxed more, ate better, drank less but there was no change. Recovery just was nowhere to be found. My girlfriend suggested I go for a second opinion. I did. The diagnoses were the same- look after your heart. The first surgeon knew what was wrong but because we were friends by now some rule about friend –surgeon privileged prevented him from saying so At the time of my consultations, a mutual friend of the first surgeon and me was ill. We were discussing his illness and possible cure. In searching for a cure for our friend, I started feeling stronger, breathed easier. I had a good idea what was wrong as I recognised the symptoms. The months that followed my heart started beating a normal rhythm through helping our mutual friend. Turned out our friend knew what was wrong with himself and was fixing it. I recovered slowly but surely with advice and guidance from the surgeon. Every now and again he would give hints about his qualities and a good surgeon. I smiled as it was not necessary; I already knew he was a good surgeon. Acai berry was recommended for good health. Exercise for positive mental attitude and honesty with myself and a change of lifestyle choices for strength. When I fell, there was always a hand nearby to lift me up or an encouraging word or 2. It has been 3 years and I kayak most days, eat healthy, smile more and feel able to manage life’s challenges. I climb the stairs easy and do not think about taking the elevator. A couple of months ago, I realised that I was so busy recovering that I did not notice he had required open heart surgery. This is how the surgeon knew about my heart condition. I hope I can be there for the surgeon who is in recovery. All know is that when I was asked who I would invite for dinner, my closet inner circle of trusted people, the surgeons name was top of the list. Anyone who takes time to carry out the delicate process of open heart surgery has to be a treasure. Thank you 